The holiday season is not when most of us think about death and dying. However, we do think about gift-giving. Estate planning is a gift for your family. Wouldn’t you prefer a package wrapped in festive paper and decorated with ribbons than an unwrapped item hastily stuffed into a shopping bag? The article “5 Things to Do Now to Make Your Estate Simpler for Your Heirs” from The Wall Street Journal offers a starting point.

Update all estate planning documents. Failing to update estate planning documents, including finalizing new documents, can wreak havoc on families. One example is a woman who took about two decades to update her will and then died before signing the papers. Her will included giving assets to stepchildren she hadn’t seen in more than twenty years. Her adult children are spending thousands to have the new will enforced by a judge, even though it’s unsigned.

When did you last examine the beneficiary designations for all your financial accounts? Life insurance, retirement accounts, bank and investment accounts, pensions and other financial accounts provide an opportunity to name a person or people to receive the assets directly upon your death. If your old college pal is the person you thought of when you started your 401(k) with your first job, your wife may not appreciate his receiving hundreds of thousands of dollars upon your death.

Named beneficiaries receive assets directly from the financial institution and do not go through probate. No matter what language is in a will or even a living trust, these assets belong to the people you named to receive them. You should have a list of all of these accounts and know who the beneficiaries are.

Digital assets are now part of estate plans. There are very few people today who don’t have digital assets. These include the content in your emails, photos stored on the cloud, websites, content on social media platforms, online businesses and anything you’ve created online. Most people don’t understand the Terms of Service Agreement they make between the service provider and themselves when they click on the link to approve the TOSA. However, this is a legally binding contract delineating what the platform owns and what the user owns. You may not own books, movies, or other digital assets; you might have rented them unknowingly.

Digital assets need to be organized for heirs, since there isn’t a paper trail for them to follow like in previous decades. You can create a spreadsheet, use a password manager or a pad of paper.  However, there should be a means for your digital executor to identify and access your digital assets.

Some digital platforms allow you to name a “legacy” contact who can take care of your digital assets after you’ve passed. You’ll need to go through each of your digital assets to find out which platform has this or related features. If it seems annoying, imagine how your heirs will feel trying to untangle your digital assets.

If your estate includes cryptocurrency, this is especially important. Millions of dollars of crypto have been lost because people have failed to secure their pass keys or digital wallets.

Deal with personal property now. Especially if you have multiple heirs, hoping the kids “work things out” could be a recipe for disaster. Make a list of your personal items and who you want to receive what. In some families, this is relatively straightforward. However, your adult children will be grieving after your passing and vulnerable to disputes. Another tactic: give items while you’re living.

Get your estate planning documents organized. Create a three-ring binder with all essential documents. Contact information for your estate planning attorney, CPA and financial advisor should be provided. Include a list of bills paid online, like utility, mortgage, taxes, health insurance, car insurance, etc. Also included are Power of Attorney, Health Care Power of Attorney, Living Will, Trusts and other estate planning documents. Tell your executor and adult children where the folder is.

An organized estate plan helps avoid family conflict. Having documents prepared, property assigned and accounts recorded all takes time. However, by doing so, you’ve minimized the work for loved ones and minimized reasons for quarrels during what will already be a difficult time.

Reference: The Wall Street Journal (Nov. 14, 2024) “5 Things to Do Now to Make Your Estate Simpler for Your Heirs”