One family jokes about their mother’s large blue binder, affectionately calling it “Mom’s Book of Life.” She has assembled physical copies of estate planning documents, including medical directives for next of kin, account information, passwords and a list of assets. Her adult children thought they were too young to deal with such matters, reports a recent article, “I’m Way Too Young For Estate Planning. Or Am I?” from The Wall Street Journal. On reflection, they realized they, too, needed an estate plan.

Someone as young as 18 could benefit from having an estate plan, and someone in their 30s definitely needs one. Once a young person becomes a legal adult, their parents no longer have any say in financial or health matters without properly prepared estate planning documents.

Everyone over 18 should have an advanced healthcare directive, sometimes called a healthcare proxy or healthcare power of attorney. This allows people of your choosing the ability to make decisions about your healthcare if you become incapacitated: too sick or severely injured and unable to communicate your wishes.

Adults of all ages also need a power of attorney. This document gives another person the legal authority to access and manage your finances in case of incapacity.

A will, also known as a last will and testament, is needed to direct how you want your assets to be distributed after death. Even if you don’t own a home or car, chances are you have some personal property and may want specific people to receive certain items. Creating a will and getting used to the concept of planning for the future is a good habit.

If you have an extensive online life, digital assets will also require some planning. An inventory of your digital assets, including email accounts, apps, social media, cryptocurrency, photos, videos, etc., should be created, so a digital executor can manage the accounts. Some platforms permit naming a legacy contact, while others require specific directions on what should be done with your content.

Student loans, 401(k)s from employers and other financial accounts should be inventoried. However, this information doesn’t go into the will. The will becomes a public document once submitted to the court for probate, so any specific account information should be kept in an inventory of assets and debts.

Creating an estate plan can open a conversation with older relatives and parents about their plans for end-of-life care, a difficult but important dialogue. Talking about their wishes before something happens will allow you or other relatives to know beforehand, rather than spending the rest of your life worrying about a decision made in an emergency situation.

Estate plans need to be changed as you go through your life. New partners or spouses may need to be added, or a deceased parent may need to be removed as an executor. Getting used to addressing these life matters is part of being a responsible and loving adult.

Reference: The Wall Street Journal (Oct. 18, 2024) “I’m Way Too Young For Estate Planning. Or Am I?”